In the chaos of raising a toddler there lies a path to nirvana |

One parent shares some thoughts about the personal struggles of being with a three year old and having a sense of 'self'.

Kurt Gray is an associate professor of social and moral psychology at the University of North Carolina, Chapel Hill, and director of the Center for the Science of Moral Understanding.

The article is published in Psyche,  a new digital magazine from Aeon that illuminates the human condition through three prisms: mental health; the perennial question of ‘how to live’; and the artistic and transcendent facets of life.